'I’m not going to wake up at 8am just to make sure someone doesn’t need their shift covered that day': Coworker sets boundaries with colleagues, they call her out for not covering on her day off

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  • A woman looks at her smartphone on a couch
  • I'm going to have a work life balance, no matter what.

    This is just a shout into the void but I work two jobs. When I have a day off, I have a day off. I make plans to see my family or have doctors appointments or sit in my house in my pajamas and watch crime procedurals. I've started catching some flack from one coworker in particular it
  • seems, because I constantly get last minute text messages from them asking if I can cover their shift. They're the only person I've had issues with!! I get two days off a week (if I'm lucky) which is a blessing compared to some jobs, and I'm going to take advantage of that. I work nights so I sleep in, and I'm not going to wake up at 8am just to make sure someone
  • doesn't need their shift covered that day. I refuse to be that kind of bitter adult person who hates their job and their life and makes it everyone else's problem. No one knows how long they have to live, so gd nit, I'm going to enjoy my time off and do what I want without feeling guilty about it.
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  • Commenters came in with their support.

    FishDispenser2 Why does the coworker even care? It's managements fault if they can't cover the shift
  • HowPeopleSpend If you're already working two jobs, protecting your time off isn't unreasonable at all
  • Blackintosh If anyone from work asks if I'm busy, or have plans, my default answer now is always "yes" with no further elaboration. If they're the kind of pushy d khead... "family stuff" is the most detail they get.
  • Yeah GotNuthin "I could do more with my career, but that would really cut into my sittin'-around time." • Maria Bamford
  • Bason-Jateman Good for you. I used to feel weirdly guilty saying no to shift cover texts until I realized my "day off" wasn't actually a day off if I was always on standby. If you're juggling two jobs already, protecting those couple free days isn't selfish, it's survival.
  • A woman in a blue sweater holds a phone to her ear
  • Sophie_Doodie Good. Your time off is yours. If you keep saying yes every time someone asks you to cover, it quietly becomes an expectation instead of a favor. Having boundaries around your days off isn't selfish, it's just being clear about your limits. Work will always ask for more if you let it, so protecting your time is the only way to actually have a life outside of it.
  • GreyerGrey If it is ALWAYS the same person asking to take their shift every time, the flack is based on jealousy. They wanted time off they didn't plan for and you said no. It's petty high school bull sh.
  • mediapoison you are allowed to tell people to "f off" that is the first skill you develop as an adult. People will try to get in your sh, and you gotta be like NO. Boundaries are the hardest thing to learn actually.
  • Cosmic-Meatball That attitude is absolutely golden. Power to you
  • pangalacticcourier "Sorry, coworker. I have plans I can't change."

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